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Continuing with our earlier blog, I want to talk about the psychological and practical reasons why bystanders often fail to intervene in emergencies. The tragic murder of Kriti Kumari in a Bengaluru PG accommodation serves as a stark reminder of the importance of self-defence and the harsh reality that you cannot always rely on others for help.
The Incident Recap
On July 23, 2024, Kriti Kumari was brutally murdered by Abhishek, the former partner of her friend. CCTV footage showed Abhishek entering the PG with a concealed knife, attacking Kriti, and fleeing the scene after committing the crime. Despite her desperate cries for help, none of the other residents in the PG stepped in to assist her during the critical moments. The other girls emerged from their rooms only after the attacker had left, highlighting a common issue in such situations​.
Why Bystanders Don't Intervene
1. The Bystander Effect The bystander effect is a psychological phenomenon where individuals are less likely to help a victim when other people are present. The presence of multiple witnesses diffuses the sense of personal responsibility, leading to inaction. People assume that someone else will intervene, which often results in no one taking action.
2. Fear for Personal Safety Many bystanders are afraid of putting themselves in danger. Confronting an armed attacker is a frightening prospect, and the instinct for self-preservation can override the impulse to help others. In Kriti's case, the residents may have feared becoming the next target.
3. Lack of Preparedness Without proper training in self-defence or emergency response, individuals may feel helpless and unsure of how to act effectively. This lack of preparedness can lead to paralysis and inaction.
4. Shock and Disbelief Witnessing a violent crime can be shocking and disorienting. The initial reaction to such an event can be disbelief and confusion, causing a delay in response. By the time individuals process what is happening, it may be too late to intervene.
The Importance of Self-Defence Training
Building Confidence to Act Self-defence training can empower individuals with the skills and confidence needed to take action in emergencies. Knowing how to defend oneself and others can reduce the hesitation and fear that often prevent intervention.
Practical Techniques for Real Situations Training in self-defence systems like Krav Maga equips individuals with practical techniques to neutralise threats quickly and effectively. This training includes handling armed attackers, which can make a significant difference in life-threatening situations.
Creating a Culture of Action Encouraging self-defence training and situational awareness can help build a culture where people are more likely to intervene and assist others. This cultural shift can increase the likelihood of collective action in emergencies.
Conclusion
The tragic death of Kriti Kumari highlights the critical need for self-defence training and the importance of being prepared to act in emergencies. By understanding the psychological barriers to intervention and equipping ourselves with the necessary skills, we can create a safer environment where individuals are more likely to help each other in times of need.
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